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Patty Bee's avatar

"Octopus trap cardiomyopathy." I will not forget that this is what probably killed my grandmother and my aunt. I also wonder about other changes in the body, like my father turning elderly overnight and losing part of his mind. Thank you for sharing this Rea, I'm thankful you are still here with us, writing up a storm.

Rea de Miranda's avatar

I wonder if his symptoms aren’t also grief. Thank you, Patty! <3

Patty Bee's avatar

Yes. And loneliness.

Rea de Miranda's avatar

Men keep a lot of their pain inside.

Todd Christopher Thurman's avatar

I've absolutely felt the pain in one's chest that feels like it could actually take your life (and your soul) at any moment; it is quite real. I am sorry you have had to go through the same/worse. Not everyone does. Not everyone knows. And it's hard, but maybe not impossible, to spot the ones who do and who don't

Rea de Miranda's avatar

Life deals us our cards and we must play it to the best of our abilities. Thank you for your kind words Todd.

ZIZI MAJID's avatar

So sorry to hear about your son Rea. I pray your strength and courage see you through your tough times.

I have a friend who lost her adult son to cancer 2 years ago. She is still not able to function properly.

Rea de Miranda's avatar

It was utter hell Zizi. Your friend’s loss is still so raw. It can take years to heal. Just reach out to her regularly. It helped me to know I wasn’t alone. Love coming your way.

ZIZI MAJID's avatar

I do, all the time. My son suffered TBI and he's home crippled for life. Angry at the world, me mostly, it is not easy.

Rea de Miranda's avatar

Oh Zizi, I am sorry. I can imagine. I really can. My youngest son was angry when his father died. It is difficult, not a walk in the park. Hugs coming your way.

ZIZI MAJID's avatar

🤗🤗🤗

LaLa ✿Indie Maker✿'s avatar

I'm sorry for your loss. It's unimaginable. It seems like a good step to share this experience with others so that they are aware it could happen. Sending hug energy 🤗🫶 and prayers🙏

Rea de Miranda's avatar

Thank you for your kind words. If my posts can help others out there I will be deeply grateful.