Change

Change is inevitable!

Change is something we can be certain of because nothing stays the same. Life changes from one day to the next and, in the blink of an eye. Does it even help to make any plans for our lives? I don’t think so. I made many plans when I was young and foolishly believed it would all happen exactly the way I wanted it.

But that is not the way life works now, is it? We can plan but to make it happen the way we want it is fallible. Nothing is for sure in this old life. You go out into the world with your 2.5 children and your three-bedroom house and overnight you only have one child, no partner, and your life has changed completely.

All the dreams lay scattered at your feet and you feel confused and lost. To build up another life with other ideas and dreams take form and you hope and pray that it will be the way you wish for it to be now. However, it never stays the same and you have to change with it even if you want to scream and shout.

It will be futile to want life to stay the same because nothing ever stays unchanged. Life transforms every day and not always in ways that are comfortable or secure. We lose people we love and we meet new people and our expectations and dreams alter with it all. We become used to a certain kind of life and believe that is what it will be like forever.

Even the things we want become different and that is not even a given. So what do we do now? We just go with the flow and hope to keep our morals and beliefs intact. We try to keep something of ourselves in place and not lose our own identity. Fighting against the changes is a waste of time and all we can do is stay true to ourselves.

Nothing ever stays the same and the sooner we accept that, the sooner we can grow and become deeper and more faithful to our life paths. Whatever happens on this road of life is all lessons to teach us and make us stronger to live through disappointments, heartache, and new beginnings.

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