Rea, I grew up with a mother who used the word "weak" as code. Of course as a child, I could not have understood what it meant exactly. But now I do. My uncle wasn't very successful, and he moved my aunt (a heartbreak for my her and my mom, who were inseparable) and his family across the family for a job. He then cheated on my aunt. My mother always said going forward, "Well, your uncle was a weak guy."
Another father we knew cheated on his wife too. All my mother would do is shake her head tersely and say, "What a weak man."
My ex was weak too. It's been a long time, but yes, weak in so many ways. Thank you for this piece. I've healed and learned to trust my instincts now, drawn to people with strong characters. I think this is a beautiful and poignant piece that I'm guessing many women can relate to.
It must have been unbearable. So grateful you’ve made it to the other side and able to share the experience. We always think we suffer alone, but there are so many suffering right along beside us, in silence. Sending hugs 🤗 🙏🏻
Oh Rea, I feel for you so much. Our stories have similarities. I’m sorry you have been through so much. Your writing is, as always, beautiful. Sending love and support.
Rea, I grew up with a mother who used the word "weak" as code. Of course as a child, I could not have understood what it meant exactly. But now I do. My uncle wasn't very successful, and he moved my aunt (a heartbreak for my her and my mom, who were inseparable) and his family across the family for a job. He then cheated on my aunt. My mother always said going forward, "Well, your uncle was a weak guy."
Another father we knew cheated on his wife too. All my mother would do is shake her head tersely and say, "What a weak man."
My ex was weak too. It's been a long time, but yes, weak in so many ways. Thank you for this piece. I've healed and learned to trust my instincts now, drawn to people with strong characters. I think this is a beautiful and poignant piece that I'm guessing many women can relate to.
I am sorry you knew weak men too Patty. Thank you for your heartfelt comment. Yes, too many people struggle every day. 💞
It must have been unbearable. So grateful you’ve made it to the other side and able to share the experience. We always think we suffer alone, but there are so many suffering right along beside us, in silence. Sending hugs 🤗 🙏🏻
You are right, many people suffer unimaginable horrors. Thank you. ❤️
I’m so sorry you went through so much anguish and pain. Thank you for sharing your words.
Thank you for taking the time to read and comment on my words.
You have gone through a lot. I pray for you have peace and a happy fulfilling life.
I am now Zizi. Thank you! 🩷
Oh Rea, I feel for you so much. Our stories have similarities. I’m sorry you have been through so much. Your writing is, as always, beautiful. Sending love and support.
Amy, we walk this road triumphant! They will not break us. We rise from the ashes my friend. Much ❤